Does pain really exist?

We have all been hurt once. We have all been heartbroken once. But we all faced the pain they gave to us. In the end it was only ourselves who we had to help the most. In the end the pain was gone. But what if the pain never existed? What if it was only in our head? What if it was something we thought we couldn't bear but we were actually stronger than we thought?

I've come to realize that pain is a feeling we create by our own and we only choose how long it's going to be there. If we want it to go away it will. Pain is actually a feeling, yeah, but as long as we keep thinking about the things that caused us that pain, it will always remain there and it will never disappear. So, I guess we should stop thinking and thinking about that same person all the time. We should stop visiting the places that remind us of that person. 

We just have to stop. Our imagination is not that poor. There are people and things or even places out there that can make us more happy as we can't imagine. We only have to keep our eyes opened to see all of these. Little things are those which make the differencies. We just have to watch carefully. There are people out there who actually care about us. 

And we should just wait. Because things are always going to get better. Nothing lasts forever. Everything is temporary except out happiness. Because we choose whether we want to be happy or not. It's not that hard. "The cure for pain is in the pain" and when you will find it, the pain will be gone!

P.S: Do not forget to smile!

There is nothing ahead 

Lovers think they're looking for each other,

but there's only one search: 

wandering this world is wandering that,

both inside one transparent sky.

In here there is no dogma and no heresy.

The miracle of Jesus is himself, 

not what he said or did about the future.

Forget the future.

I'd worship someone who could do that.

On the way you may want to look back, or not.

But if you can say, There is nothing ahead,

there will be nothing there.

Stretch your arms

and take hold of the cloth of your clothes with both hands.

The cure for pain is in the pain.

Good and bad are mixed. 

If you don't have both,

you don't belong with us.

When one of us gets lost,

is not here, he must be inside us.

There's no place like that anywhere in the world.

-RUMI-